Mentors Only Make You Rich If You Let Them
The latter... very easy for me as I am a seasoned professional on being hard on people when they need a kick up the bum or a little push in the right direction.
Then, today, my mentor rung me. Not to give me a kick up the bum, but to ask me how I am going. As I explained the latest developments in my business and a little update on my personal life, I was able to hear out loud what my dreams are for my business and how I planned to execute them. I couldn't very well just give him an overarching view like I can with my employees. He wanted to know exactly how I am going to make it happen. Am I going to enough meetings with the right people? Have I done enough research? Is it financially viable? Have I run it past some other people we mutually know that are very smart in business? What do I want the outcome to be? Do I realise how much work is involved?
Am I happy? Will it make me happy? What about marriage and babies? How does that fit in? Have I thought through everything?
Great questions. I really had to think long and hard about the answers. You see, this man is in his late 70's and doesn't like his time wasted. He deals with the best business people in the world week in, week out. He is a legend in his field and has not only made a lot of money over the years, but also has the respect of his peers.
He also is a gentleman. When it comes to business, he is hard but fair. He expects the best out of his people including me. When I succeed, he is the first to reward me for my achievements. When I fail, he wants to know why and how I am going to do it differently next time.
Although I don't think he had too much work life balance at my age, he certainly pushes me to do so. And my health is always number one. If I have a cold, he is the first to send chicken soup over and bagger me until I go home. Fortunately, he doesn't know how to use a computer, let alone the internet, so I can safely work from my bedroom.
The heading of this particular marketing blog has meaning. A good mentor can make you rich if you listen. As I did with my friend who struggles in her business, my mentor does with me - advice that is substantiated by lessons that have been learnt. I have no doubt learnt from the best in the business.
What I said to my friend is that she needs to have goals that are different from her dreams. Goals need to be somewhat achievable, whereas dreams can be much more ambitious then that. Goals may be to turn over $500,000 in the first year, $1,000,000 the next and so on.
She has to believe in herself and make sure that she does what she says she is going to do. Have a business plan, write a marketing strategy and then make sure she implements it.
No excuses.
Also, if she is going to ask for advice, the most important thing for her to do is listen. The advice won't always be right and may not always apply to her business, but what it will do is give her another perspective. When people are giving advice, I have asked her to make sure that they give it based on real experience rather opinion. It's one of the things I learnt years ago when I first joined the Entrepreneurs Organisation.
With my mentor, he has made me richer than I ever imagined. Maybe not in cold hard cash in the bank right now, but I know through his guidance, my business will be worth more in a few years than I ever imagined possible. My benchmark has been lifted and he has helped me re-define how high that should be. In addition, he has created a knowledge bank of what others in different industries do and how they grow from being a small business into being a global business.
This knowledge is invaluable and importantly for me, I pass on this information to my clients who are in the same boat. Small businesses who want to grow. That have a dream.
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comments ( 8 )
transformyourbusiness
09 Oct 2012Yes i am agreed by your thoughts mentor will help you certainly if you follow them . Many thanks for sharing a wonderful information
Replyandy
11 Sep 2012quite agree with your opinion, only if u grad the experience and knowledge your mentor gave u and actually use it, it can do good to you, nice sharing anyway!
ReplySandra
11 May 2012A mentor will guide and motivate you to your goals. They are just like coaches, they are on your team, they can advise and inspire but the hard work is all up to you.
ReplyBrittany
21 Feb 2012This is a very insightful article!
ReplyHaving a mentor helps you get a perspective on life, and prioritise what is really important to you.
New business plans can be great, but only as great as you feel about yourself.
Very inspiring..
Josh
17 Feb 2012Having someone to look up to and seek advice from is applicable in all facets of life and I agree, are an invaluable tool!
ReplySimon
16 Feb 2012You always point out how close business is from the real life and this is another good example.
ReplyWe will always need a mentor in our life, maybe not for a long time but we will need it. It's the way we learnt to grow!
Ikram
15 Feb 2012Sure it's a great article, very interesting and useful
ReplySophie
15 Feb 2012Your mentor can be proud of you !
ReplyGreat article !